Deep to the bone of upbringing, hidden in these 29 details

the so-called upbringing is the moderation of our language, the appropriateness of our behavior, and the gentleness and kindness of interacting with others.

it is like the spring breeze, inadvertently blowing the cheek; it is like the autumn rain, watering the heart brings bursts of cool.

Real upbringing is hidden in the little things of daily life.

01

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when handing scissors, pencils and other objects to others, hold the pointed end in your hand.

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to think more about others.

02

the advanced elevator will press and hold the door button until everyone comes up.

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if you can wait, just wait.

03

when entering canteens, supermarkets and shopping malls, open the door or open the curtain to see if there is anyone behind you, if someone uses his hand to avoid hitting the person behind him.

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take one more look and give more help.

04

ask for permission before borrowing something, don't look for it privately, even if the relationship is familiar again.

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05

go to someone else's house and don't sit casually on their bed.

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even if the Lord does as he likes, it does not mean that he is casual.

06

when seeing off guests, try to wait until the guests are out of sight before closing the door.

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to send you away until it is out of reach.

07

talking to a child will squat down and level his line of sight.

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to look flat with you, not to be arrogant.

08

on subway, bus and other public transport, don't lean on the handrail and don't squeeze the space next to you too much with your body or objects.

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influence others not for one's own sake.

09

look at the photos on other people's mobile phones and don't swipe left and right without authorization.

if you send a photo with someone else to the public platform, you need to ask the other person's consent in advance.

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respect other people's privacy, do not pry without authorization.

10

take off your headphones when talking to others.

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you say, I am listening.

11

Don't belittle other people's favorite books, movies, music, etc., even if you don't feel it.

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different taste, each respect.

12

some precautions on rainy days:

drive slowly, especially when you find stagnant water on the road, you should slow down to avoid splashing wet passers-by;

do not litter on the road, it is likely to cause poor drainage;

wet umbrellas, don't put them on the bus seat or on the chair for people to rest.

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mutual understanding and promoting public morality.

13

knock before entering, even if you enter your child's room.

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can I come in?

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others want to enter a password, no matter what password, please turn your head to avoid it.

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"if you are not courteous or not to see".

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ask others to help bring things, ask the price, and give the money back to the other party in time.

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self-consciousness.

16

after explaining or explaining to others, do you understand me? am I clear?

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to change the tone and make people comfortable.

17

watch video in public places and try not to play sound.

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it is my tenderness not to disturb.

18

garbage made in public places, please pack up and take away when you leave.

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it is easy to raise a hand, no trouble.

19

forget to reply for a long time, and you'd better explain why when you reply again.

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necessary explanation.

20

it's impolite to knock on a door that you don't want to open for you all the time.

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you don't have to be embarrassed, I quit in the face of difficulties.

21

sending goose feathers thousands of miles is light and affectionate. Gifts from friends, whether valuable or not, should be sincerely appreciated and cherished.

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attach importance to the wishes of others, even if they are insignificant.

22

if someone accidentally does something embarrassing in public, such as falling on the stage, don't stare at him, especially if you meet someone with a disability.

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Don't look directly at the embarrassment or pain of others.

23

I met a cleaning aunt in the office building, pushing a box full of rubbish from the stairwell, and the whole corridor smelled sour.

Zhang San asked, "Auntie, isn't there a freight elevator over there?"

Auntie said awkwardly, "Today, the freight elevator in this building is broken. The tenth floor is so high that I can't help it."Run up and down layer by layer. "

Li Si looked, smiled and pressed the elevator button for his aunt and gently said, "Auntie, please go down first. Don't delay your work. I'm in no hurry."

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better than remembering you, and what is more touching is that I understand your difficulties.