6 pieces of advice for women (must see from 25 to 55 years old)

01

on your own, you are the queen

the most important lesson for women is to learn to be independent.

Don't rely on anyone, live proudly.

even if someone says he wants to support you, don't take it seriously. What he said about "I raise you" is not for you to read and write at home, but to do all the housework without complaining.

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in fact, "I raise you" is the most poisonous love word in the world. it will destroy your self-discipline, make you lose yourself, and become a vassal of others.

on your own, you are the queen.

No matter how difficult the road is, all your efforts will not be in vain. Those difficult experiences will eventually make you a better person.

if you want to be wonderful, you need to know how to manage yourself well. No matter how old you are and what kind of life you are in, you can't relax your requirements, and age should not be the reason to bind you.

from ability to appearance, women should make themselves as good as possible. You have to believe that when you become good enough, those beautiful things will naturally find you.

02

Don't think too well of everyone

character is too simple to be a good thing.

some women don't like to play with their hearts, like to go straight and say what they have to say.

get used to thinking too well of everyone and responding to other people's requests, thinking that if you treat others with sincerity, you will get the same reward.

but you should know that there are always some people who really don't matter how much you give. If you give them all, they will feel that you haven't given enough.

in this world, the most difficult thing to understand is emotion, and the most difficult thing to measure is the human heart.

not everyone is as stupid and naive as you are, and not everything will be the way you want it to be.

from now on, only be kind, kind and defensive, sincere and cautious to those who cherish you!

03

to see whether a man is worth marrying

first of all, it depends on his family and friends

Women in love are blind. After falling in love, they often hand themselves over easily. After marriage, it is too late to repent.

before you decide to marry a man, you should first observe his family and friends.

look at his family, not whether he has money, but whether his family is harmonious enough.

whether one party dictates and the other swallows;

whether the husband and wife will look like a long cold war and lack of communication depends more on their man's attitude;

will turn a blind eye to these behaviors, or feel normal.

Family has a great influence on a person, and children who grow up in a loveless family may have problems with their emotional values.

look at his friends, not whether they have many friends, but also their character.

if the family cannot choose by itself, there is no doubt that the friend he chooses best reflects what kind of character he is.

people flock together, things divide into groups.

if he is gentle and considerate in front of you, but his friends don't respect women and are full of foul language, that's probably what he really is.

04

A lot of relationships are defeated by different values

I know a lot of couples. They are obviously in love, but they are always unhappy when they are together. They can make a fuss about trivial things:

there is a rare holiday in which both of them have a rest, and he wants to have a good sleep at home, but she wants to take advantage of these days to go to the nearby town to play.

she spent half a month's salary on a set of cosmetics she liked very much. She felt very happy, but the other person grimaced and complained about her spending money.

she feels that her ex is a restricted area that cannot be touched, and she has consciously blocked all her ex's contact information as dead, but he disagrees, feeling that there is no need to be too stiff, and even chat occasionally.

on these differences, in fact, there is nothing wrong with the two people, only because their respective views on life, money, and love are different, so there are many contradictions.

more because neither of them is willing to give in and would rather have an upside-down quarrel.

such feelings will only make you feel tired. For the rest of your life, you still need to be with people who are suitable and comfortable with each other.

05

if you love someone again, you must have your own bottom line

what it's like to fall in love with someone deeply. Tianlei stirs up the fire and feels that he can go up and down the mountain for him and do anything for him.

but love should not be like this, it is not the unilateral efforts of one person, but the joint efforts of two people.

even if you love a man again, you must have your own bottom line.

never give up your dignity, abandon your parents, or give up your job just because you love someone.

if someone asks you to sacrifice yourself, he will sacrifice you in the end.

when you fall in love with a man, you expect to be cared for and respected by him, not so much that you lose yourself.

06

be good at communicating and can solve many problems

most of the time, the contradiction between the two people is caused by the lack of communication.

many women think that their partner is the one who knows them best, thinking that they will understand you even if they don't say anything.

however, there are more cases:

he thinks you don't mind if you don't talk;

when you are angry, he says you are weird;

when you are in a more emotional mood, he thinks you don't mind.The more you accumulate and the more you snowball, he will think you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

such a state is actually not conducive to the long-term stability of the relationship, but also let yourself suffer too many grievances.

on the contrary, it is those who make a lot of noise all the way to the white end.

Men are rough animals. If you don't say something, he may never understand.

if you can say something clearly, don't let the man guess, not only can you vent your emotions, but he can also have a chance to explain, and there will be more harmony between you.

at any time, good communication is a necessity of life.

Life can't be as good as you think, but it won't be as bad as you think.

I think people are more fragile and strong than they can imagine.

sometimes, you may be so fragile that you burst into tears;

sometimes, you find yourself walking a long way with clenched teeth.

despite the stumbling along the way, there may be fewer and fewer people walking with you.

but when you look back, all you see is the firmer footprints and the brilliant scenery behind you.

in the future, may your three winters be warm and your spring not cold.

for the rest of my life, be a woman with character, not pandering, not fawning on vulgarity, not making do with it!